🖤 What This Retreat Is

The Leadership Gathering is a weekend for women, non-binary, and gender-expansive Leatherfolk who want to lead with more clarity, confidence, and heart.

If you’ve ever thought, “I love this community, but I’m tired… I want to grow, to connect, and to make a bigger difference,” — this is for you.

Over three days of workshops, coaching, and conversation, you’ll learn and practice the principles of Toni’s Leadership Framework — a practical, personal system for leading with authenticity, improving communication, and turning passion into purpose.

This isn’t a lecture. It’s hands-on, real-world skill building in a safe, encouraging space — designed to strengthen your voice, your confidence, and your ability to inspire others.

You’ll leave with new tools, renewed energy, and a clearer vision for how you want to show up in your life and community.

Come curious. Leave unstoppable.

🔥 Who This Retreat Is For

This weekend is for folx who:

• Want to grow their confidence and communication skills

• Are ready to make a greater impact in their communities or relationships

• Lead, organize, educate, or support others — and want to do it with ease

• Are craving mentorship, fresh tools, and inspiration

• Need time to refill their emotional and spiritual tank

You don’t need a title — just the desire to grow into your next, best version of yourself.

🌙 What You’ll Experience

• Interactive workshops to strengthen confidence, communication & presence

• Personal coaching & guided reflection from Toni Solenne

• Restorative circles & rituals that reconnect you to your passion

• Community building & skill exchange with other changemakers

• Time to relax, recharge, and reimagine your next chapter

• Sunday at the Carter-Johnson Library & Collection with Vi Johnson

This isn’t just another weekend away.

It’s a moment to invest in you — the leader you are becoming, the voice our community needs, and the light that keeps our movement alive.

Claim your space. Join the movement. Grow in community.

This winter retreat is your chance to connect deeply, learn meaningfully, and help shape the future of Women of Drummer — together.

Judy cooking during a Women of Drummer Retreat in France, 2019.